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My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and A My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and Amazon🍂🤎 comment FALL and I’ll send ya the 🔗 

fall candles | fall foliage | fall decor | home decor | mantel styling 

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When I say this design came to me in a dream I quite literally mean it haha it really came to me in my sleep. I had been thinking about how to make the overmantel work since the stone structure placement kind of made it more difficult.

Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

#homediy #lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplacerenovation #homerenovation @loweshomeimprovement
Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 This is sort o Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
Fireplace Makeover Part One!

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

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Fitness · December 11, 2020

Picking the Right Weights for Your Workout

One of the most common questions I get regarding workouts is about what weight that I am using, and what weight that you should use.  There is not a one-size fits all answer to this and there are a variety of factors that go into it, but in this post I’m going to break down the things you should consider when picking the right weights for your workout!

Picking the Right Weights for Your Workout

Good Form First

First off, a good rule of thumb to always consider when picking the right weights for your workout is if you’re able to complete the move with good form.  If you’re having to sacrifice form in order to lift a heavier weight, that is a good indication that it’s time to drop the weight down.  If not, you risk not just getting the right effect of the exercise you’re doing, but you also risk injuring yourself in the process.

Make It Challenge You

Another thing to take into consideration is if the weight you’re using is challenging you.  Ideally, you want the last 3-4 reps to be challenging (you can “feel the burn”)… however still remembering if you’re able to properly do the move with good form.  That is #1.  Likewise, if you’re not feeling challenged, consider going up in weight.

An option you can do here is something called a “drop set”.  This really helps build strength.  To do a drop set, you’d perform a set of an exercise to failure (meaning when you get to the point where you can’t lift anymore with good form) and then you’d drop your weight down and finish the remainder of the set at the lighter weight.

It Depends On The Muscle

What muscle you’re working will also play a role.  For example, our biceps muscles in our arms are much smaller muscles than our quadriceps muscles in our legs.  Therefore, your quads would be able to sustain a higher load of weight.  So that is something to take into consideration.  It also might just depend on the day for you!  Some days you may feel stronger than others and that’s totally normal.

It Depends On Your Goals

Someone training for muscular hypertrophy, meaning the enlargement of muscle fibers (aka increasing the size of your muscles) would want to consistently be finding that spot of progressive overload (by adding more weight) in workouts that use low to intermediate rep ranges 8-12 repetitions per set.  Someone training for max strength or power would do something different.

My own personal goals with my workouts (you can read more HERE about how I learned to exercise for my personal goals) and the same workouts I share in the Besst Workouts App are geared towards what’s called muscular endurance.  I utilize resistance and circuit training protocols that use multiple sets of high repetitions.  My workouts combine cardio and resistance training to strategically and efficiently get the best of both worlds, meaning you see results faster and the workouts will continue to challenge & change you.  A few of the benefits of circuit training are increased muscular endurance, increased maximal oxygen consumption, decreased body fat, & increased lean muscle.  Circuit training is highly effective at changing body composition (ie: losing body fat and increasing lean muscle).

So for me, I use weights that range (depending on the move) from 2lbs-12lbs.  To be more specific, I have a set of dumbbells at these weights: 2lbs, 5lbs, 8lbs, and a kettlebell at 12lbs.  A lot of my moves require bodyweight only, and then I’ve found those weights are perfect for the aesthetic and fitness I am trying to achieve.  Sometimes, for example, if I want to go higher than 12lbs, I can hold both weights in one hand to double up on the amount.  I do that frequently for back exercises like dumbbell rows or hamstring moves like RDLs.  I also utilize resistance bands.

If you’re just starting out with my workouts, I think you can use a set of 5lb dumbbells as a good starting point pretty effectively since we do higher reps, and you can always double up if you need to make it 10lbs!

I hope this helps!  If you have any questions let me know!

xo,

Bess

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Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’ Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’m the luckiest girl to have you🤍🤍🤍
Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & witch hats! Still have to add my spooky orange lights and of course our jack o lanterns 🎃 

Comment HALLOWEEN below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oXzu #ltkhome #ltkhalloween #ltkseasonal #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweenfrontporch
These ghosts we got last year are some of our favo These ghosts we got last year are some of our favorite Halloween decorations 🎃Easy to put together and they light up too! Currently on sale ‼️ be sure to follow along to see what I’ve done differently with them this year 👻 which I’ll be sharing later this week!! 

Comment GHOST below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oLFP #ltkseasonal #ltksalealert #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweendecorations #ghostdecor
Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy fri Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy friday!🤍🤍🤍

Comment CLEAN for details!

https://liketk.it/5ni9u

#cleaning #dailyvlog #cleanwithme #fridayclean #friday #fridaymotivation #fridayroutine
This tile project completes the fireplace renovati This tile project completes the fireplace renovation🖤🤍 Be sure to go back and watch parts one and two to see the complete transformation! Comment FIREPLACE and I’ll send you the links to the tiles and supplies I used. 

@loweshomeimprovement #fireplacerenovation #tile #organicmodern #marblelook
My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and A My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and Amazon🍂🤎 comment FALL and I’ll send ya the 🔗 

fall candles | fall foliage | fall decor | home decor | mantel styling 

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5mFxB #ltkhome #ltkseasonal #ltkfindsunder50
Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for t Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for the supplies we used!🔥

When I say this design came to me in a dream I quite literally mean it haha it really came to me in my sleep. I had been thinking about how to make the overmantel work since the stone structure placement kind of made it more difficult.

Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

#homediy #lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplacerenovation #homerenovation @loweshomeimprovement
Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 This is sort o Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
Fireplace Makeover Part One!

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
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