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Fitness · February 27, 2018

Why You Should Do Exercise Moves You Hate

Wait, say whatttt?

I know, it’s different from what you usually hear from me.

I preach that you should find the workouts that you enjoy so that you can make it a lifestyle.  It won’t be sustainable AT ALL if you’re constantly going to spin class when you hate spin class.  Or running when you hate running.  Or barre class when you hate it.  YOU GET IT.  But let me be more specific…I do fully agree with those aforementioned statements.  What I mean in today’s post is about specific exercise moves, not entire workouts, and I’m going to share why you should do exercise moves that you hate.

So let’s take my Fitter Program for example.  I created the program of course and so I had free reign to put in whatever moves I wanted.  I’ll tell you the move I hate the most, the absolute MOST of any other and that is up/down planks.  And yet I have them in there at least every other week.  WHY would I do that to myself?! And to you?!  Am I crazy? (maybe…)

I’ll tell you why.

Because up/down planks challenge you.  Up/down planks change you.  Up/down planks work.

But gahhh do they suck when you’re doing them.  I hate every last rep, but when I’m done, I feel SO GOOD that I did them.  I mean my shoulders are usually burning off but I feel good, ha.  Part of working out is that you have to do those moves that hurt, that burn, that you hate.  Because if you don’t do those, really, you’re cheating yourself out of the results you can be getting and you’re sort of wasting your time by only doing moves that don’t physically challenge you.

That is the same reason why I encourage people to change up the weights that they use.  If you’ve been using 5lb weights for a couple of years now, I feel pretty confident saying that you can go ahead and move up to 8lbs or 10lbs.  It doesn’t have to be a dramatic difference, and for the record it probably won’t take you a couple of years to get there.  8 Weeks through Fitter, for example, would for sure get you stronger and I’m sure on some of the moves, maybe not all, but some of them, you could go up in weight.  That is going to be different for every person.  Everyone improves and gets stronger at their own pace. *Remember when you do go up in weight that you want to have good form.  That’s a tell tale sign that you need to go down in weight is when you are unable to perform the move correctly because the weight is too heavy.  SO be mindful of that.  But can you challenge yourself and push yourself a little more?  If you’re able, you absolutely should.  That is what exercise is all about!

Also, I’m not saying every single workout should push you to the brink…that isn’t sustainable either.  But you should be testing your body and your strength in at least 2-3 workouts a week.  If you’re doing that, I bet you’re seeing those muscles pop and seeing improvements in your cardiovascular endurance.

So obviously the “hate move” as I’ll call it will be different for everyone.  My hate move is up/down planks.  I’m sure there are some sickos people out there that like up/down planks 😉  I, for one, seriously LOVE burpees.  I love me a burpee.  If I could only do one move for the rest of my life to stay in shape it would be a burpee.  Cardiovascular, torches calories, uses every muscle in your body, gets you those ripped muscles, done.

But really, even beyond the physical aspect of doing a move that you don’t like for the physical challenge, it’s important to also recognize the mental challenge.  Yes my shoulders, back, core, triceps, & biceps all get stronger when I am doing an up/down plank, but beyond that I am telling myself that I CAN DO ANYTHING and BEAT ANYTHING that comes my way.  And it should tell you the same thing.  It might be tough but SO ARE YOU.  And you won’t let it win.

So next time you’re debating skipping that one move you hate…don’t.  And I won’t either.

What move do you hate/love to hate/hate to love? 🙂

I challenge you to do 10 reps of your hate move after every one of your workouts for the next week.  Just 10 🙂  You got it!

xo,

Bess

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Comments

  1. Danielle says

    February 27, 2018 at 10:03 pm

    This is really great! I completely agree that you have to do moves you hate because you do start to feel stronger and better about the exercises you’re doing. My move would be a plank while doing a tricep kickback. Still have yet to master that one.

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      oh yes those are so challenging really anything in a plank where you have to lift one of your arms or legs off the ground is so tough!

      Reply
  2. Caroline says

    February 28, 2018 at 4:29 am

    I can’t believe you love burpees! I absolutely hate them!! Lol Guess I’ll be doing more of those!
    Great post!

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      hahaha I know I didn’t realize everyone else hates burpees so much!! lol!!

      Reply
  3. Leslie says

    February 28, 2018 at 9:45 am

    Ah your favorite is my least favorite! Burpees are the worst!!! Every time I see them in my workout schedule, I cringe but I push myself to do them and they get easier every time. Maybe one day I won’t hate them?

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:34 pm

      hahahah apparently every other person hates burpees and I love them!! I think once I finally started noticing how effective they are that I started to love them lol

      Reply
  4. Amanda Martin says

    February 28, 2018 at 11:28 am

    I ‘ll do aaaaaalll the up down planks if I never have to do a burpee again!

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:32 pm

      ahahaha we are opposites!! lololol

      Reply
  5. Megan says

    February 28, 2018 at 10:07 pm

    Burpees?! No Bess! I thought we could be friends!! lol But you’re right they are a good workout!

    Reply

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kinda chic to celebrate your 10 year anniversary t kinda chic to celebrate your 10 year anniversary two months early in Sonoma 🍷
My first baby girl is 7💞😭 Emma you were the best b My first baby girl is 7💞😭 Emma you were the best baby ever (I’m in denial you’re no longer that baby) and have grown into the best big sister. You’re so smart, kind, creative, & fun. You write the best stories & draw the best pictures. You have the biggest heart. And not unlike your sisters, you know exactly what you want and aren’t scared to ask for it🤪 never change, my girl! I love you 💕
🌊🌊🌊 🌊🌊🌊
💙🇺🇸❤️ 💙🇺🇸❤️
A weekend with lots of family & celebrating my cou A weekend with lots of family & celebrating my cousin @lizastephanz wedding🤍🥂
some spring from my camera roll 📸🌸 some spring from my camera roll 📸🌸
Dance recital weekend!💛💛💛 so proud of my little hi Dance recital weekend!💛💛💛 so proud of my little hip hop SpongeBob and ballerina girl!
#ad Light layers x blue hues adding a Spring refre #ad Light layers x blue hues adding a Spring refresh upgrade to our bedroom! Bedding is the perfect way to easily elevate your space with extra cozy vibes ☁️🩵 comment BED and I’ll send you the links!

#wayfaircreator #wayday #bedsure @wayfair @bedsurehome
One step closer to a cottage garden in the yard?🌸✔ One step closer to a cottage garden in the yard?🌸✔️These new edging stones are my latest #lowesfinds - & along with the pea gravel - they are transforming what was once a sad & forgotten space of the yard + really adding to the look of the raised beds we built last year. Comment STONES and I will send you the link to the ones I got!

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