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Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

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This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

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•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
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Fitness · February 27, 2018

Why You Should Do Exercise Moves You Hate

Wait, say whatttt?

I know, it’s different from what you usually hear from me.

I preach that you should find the workouts that you enjoy so that you can make it a lifestyle.  It won’t be sustainable AT ALL if you’re constantly going to spin class when you hate spin class.  Or running when you hate running.  Or barre class when you hate it.  YOU GET IT.  But let me be more specific…I do fully agree with those aforementioned statements.  What I mean in today’s post is about specific exercise moves, not entire workouts, and I’m going to share why you should do exercise moves that you hate.

So let’s take my Fitter Program for example.  I created the program of course and so I had free reign to put in whatever moves I wanted.  I’ll tell you the move I hate the most, the absolute MOST of any other and that is up/down planks.  And yet I have them in there at least every other week.  WHY would I do that to myself?! And to you?!  Am I crazy? (maybe…)

I’ll tell you why.

Because up/down planks challenge you.  Up/down planks change you.  Up/down planks work.

But gahhh do they suck when you’re doing them.  I hate every last rep, but when I’m done, I feel SO GOOD that I did them.  I mean my shoulders are usually burning off but I feel good, ha.  Part of working out is that you have to do those moves that hurt, that burn, that you hate.  Because if you don’t do those, really, you’re cheating yourself out of the results you can be getting and you’re sort of wasting your time by only doing moves that don’t physically challenge you.

That is the same reason why I encourage people to change up the weights that they use.  If you’ve been using 5lb weights for a couple of years now, I feel pretty confident saying that you can go ahead and move up to 8lbs or 10lbs.  It doesn’t have to be a dramatic difference, and for the record it probably won’t take you a couple of years to get there.  8 Weeks through Fitter, for example, would for sure get you stronger and I’m sure on some of the moves, maybe not all, but some of them, you could go up in weight.  That is going to be different for every person.  Everyone improves and gets stronger at their own pace. *Remember when you do go up in weight that you want to have good form.  That’s a tell tale sign that you need to go down in weight is when you are unable to perform the move correctly because the weight is too heavy.  SO be mindful of that.  But can you challenge yourself and push yourself a little more?  If you’re able, you absolutely should.  That is what exercise is all about!

Also, I’m not saying every single workout should push you to the brink…that isn’t sustainable either.  But you should be testing your body and your strength in at least 2-3 workouts a week.  If you’re doing that, I bet you’re seeing those muscles pop and seeing improvements in your cardiovascular endurance.

So obviously the “hate move” as I’ll call it will be different for everyone.  My hate move is up/down planks.  I’m sure there are some sickos people out there that like up/down planks 😉  I, for one, seriously LOVE burpees.  I love me a burpee.  If I could only do one move for the rest of my life to stay in shape it would be a burpee.  Cardiovascular, torches calories, uses every muscle in your body, gets you those ripped muscles, done.

But really, even beyond the physical aspect of doing a move that you don’t like for the physical challenge, it’s important to also recognize the mental challenge.  Yes my shoulders, back, core, triceps, & biceps all get stronger when I am doing an up/down plank, but beyond that I am telling myself that I CAN DO ANYTHING and BEAT ANYTHING that comes my way.  And it should tell you the same thing.  It might be tough but SO ARE YOU.  And you won’t let it win.

So next time you’re debating skipping that one move you hate…don’t.  And I won’t either.

What move do you hate/love to hate/hate to love? 🙂

I challenge you to do 10 reps of your hate move after every one of your workouts for the next week.  Just 10 🙂  You got it!

xo,

Bess

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Comments

  1. Danielle says

    February 27, 2018 at 10:03 pm

    This is really great! I completely agree that you have to do moves you hate because you do start to feel stronger and better about the exercises you’re doing. My move would be a plank while doing a tricep kickback. Still have yet to master that one.

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      oh yes those are so challenging really anything in a plank where you have to lift one of your arms or legs off the ground is so tough!

      Reply
  2. Caroline says

    February 28, 2018 at 4:29 am

    I can’t believe you love burpees! I absolutely hate them!! Lol Guess I’ll be doing more of those!
    Great post!

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      hahaha I know I didn’t realize everyone else hates burpees so much!! lol!!

      Reply
  3. Leslie says

    February 28, 2018 at 9:45 am

    Ah your favorite is my least favorite! Burpees are the worst!!! Every time I see them in my workout schedule, I cringe but I push myself to do them and they get easier every time. Maybe one day I won’t hate them?

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:34 pm

      hahahah apparently every other person hates burpees and I love them!! I think once I finally started noticing how effective they are that I started to love them lol

      Reply
  4. Amanda Martin says

    February 28, 2018 at 11:28 am

    I ‘ll do aaaaaalll the up down planks if I never have to do a burpee again!

    Reply
    • Bess says

      February 28, 2018 at 6:32 pm

      ahahaha we are opposites!! lololol

      Reply
  5. Megan says

    February 28, 2018 at 10:07 pm

    Burpees?! No Bess! I thought we could be friends!! lol But you’re right they are a good workout!

    Reply

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Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’ Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’m the luckiest girl to have you🤍🤍🤍
Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & witch hats! Still have to add my spooky orange lights and of course our jack o lanterns 🎃 

Comment HALLOWEEN below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oXzu #ltkhome #ltkhalloween #ltkseasonal #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweenfrontporch
These ghosts we got last year are some of our favo These ghosts we got last year are some of our favorite Halloween decorations 🎃Easy to put together and they light up too! Currently on sale ‼️ be sure to follow along to see what I’ve done differently with them this year 👻 which I’ll be sharing later this week!! 

Comment GHOST below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oLFP #ltkseasonal #ltksalealert #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweendecorations #ghostdecor
Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy fri Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy friday!🤍🤍🤍

Comment CLEAN for details!

https://liketk.it/5ni9u

#cleaning #dailyvlog #cleanwithme #fridayclean #friday #fridaymotivation #fridayroutine
This tile project completes the fireplace renovati This tile project completes the fireplace renovation🖤🤍 Be sure to go back and watch parts one and two to see the complete transformation! Comment FIREPLACE and I’ll send you the links to the tiles and supplies I used. 

@loweshomeimprovement #fireplacerenovation #tile #organicmodern #marblelook
My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and A My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and Amazon🍂🤎 comment FALL and I’ll send ya the 🔗 

fall candles | fall foliage | fall decor | home decor | mantel styling 

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5mFxB #ltkhome #ltkseasonal #ltkfindsunder50
Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for t Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for the supplies we used!🔥

When I say this design came to me in a dream I quite literally mean it haha it really came to me in my sleep. I had been thinking about how to make the overmantel work since the stone structure placement kind of made it more difficult.

Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

#homediy #lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplacerenovation #homerenovation @loweshomeimprovement
Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 This is sort o Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
Fireplace Makeover Part One!

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

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