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@loweshomeimprovement #fireplacerenovation #tile #organicmodern #marblelook
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fall candles | fall foliage | fall decor | home decor | mantel styling 

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When I say this design came to me in a dream I quite literally mean it haha it really came to me in my sleep. I had been thinking about how to make the overmantel work since the stone structure placement kind of made it more difficult.

Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

#homediy #lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplacerenovation #homerenovation @loweshomeimprovement
Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 This is sort o Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
Fireplace Makeover Part One!

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

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Lifestyle · January 18, 2017

Happy Birthday to Me! My Last Year in My Twenties

It’s my birthday!  Today I turn 29 years old.  I’ve found myself over the past year or 2 forgetting how old I am.  Is that common? Seriously…the other day I asked Craig, “I’m turning 29 this year right? Not 28? I’m 28 right now?”…Ha! Please tell me I’m not the only one that does this!! 🙂

My last year in my 20s seems like a pretty big deal but not one that I can really easily put into words.  I think back to my early 20s and sometimes it’s hard to believe I’m the same person.  Don’t get me wrong, plenty of my interests and hobbies are the same, but me as a person? I am different.  Very different.  In a good way I think.  I am immensely more confident in myself and this has definitely had a downstream effect.  Because of that, I’m happier, I’m more relaxed, more willing to accept life’s challenges.  I am stronger and I believe in myself.  If you read my old blog you may remember some of those old years, and why I ultimately wanted to end that blog and that chapter.  Sometimes, a fresh start is exactly what you need!

I am so happy with the person I am today and where I am.  I hope to continue to grow as a person, inspire myself, hopefully inspire others, be a great friend, a hard worker, and a genuine individual.  I’m blessed and grateful everyday for my husband, my family, my friends, our home and our life, and even more so blessed to be starting another year of trying to be the best person that I can be and live the happiest life possible!!

So, speaking of living the happiest life possible…enter this flourless chocolate cake.  HEART EYE EMOJIS Y’ALL!

Birthdays must involve chocolate cake and rosé!

(also, when the cake ingredients include chocolate, butter, sugar, & whiskey…you’re off to a great start.  don’t worry if you don’t like whiskey, it’s optional)

Craig helped me bake this beauty (we used this recipe).  It’s legit the best thing I’ve ever made and it was really easy.

Paired with Rose of course <3

Really the only thing I did differently with the recipe was omit vanilla extract (because I didn’t have any, oops) and then add sprinkles and chocolate syrup on top.  Birthday cakes require sprinkles.

The texture is so good…so dense and decadent!!  Definitely a must-try recipe.  I do, however, highly recommend a springform pan to bake it in!!  I got this one and it arrived in just 2 days and was perfect.

Here’s to 29!

xo,

Bess

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  1. Amanda says

    January 19, 2017 at 11:28 am

    Girl…you definitely aren’t alone! I turned 27 last week – now I keep forgetting if I’m 26, 27 or 28! Hope your birthday was fabulous 🙂

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    • thefitfave@gmail.com says

      January 19, 2017 at 5:58 pm

      Hahaha I know right! I feel like it’s just going to always be that way now, I’ll never know how old I am! Lol. Birthday was great, thank you so much!! xo

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Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’ Happy 9th anniversary to the love of my life! I’m the luckiest girl to have you🤍🤍🤍
Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & Halloween front porch! Ghosts, skeletons, bats, & witch hats! Still have to add my spooky orange lights and of course our jack o lanterns 🎃 

Comment HALLOWEEN below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oXzu #ltkhome #ltkhalloween #ltkseasonal #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweenfrontporch
These ghosts we got last year are some of our favo These ghosts we got last year are some of our favorite Halloween decorations 🎃Easy to put together and they light up too! Currently on sale ‼️ be sure to follow along to see what I’ve done differently with them this year 👻 which I’ll be sharing later this week!! 

Comment GHOST below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5oLFP #ltkseasonal #ltksalealert #halloween #halloweendecor #halloweendecorations #ghostdecor
Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy fri Friday clean with meeeee! (& Avery) 🫧 happy friday!🤍🤍🤍

Comment CLEAN for details!

https://liketk.it/5ni9u

#cleaning #dailyvlog #cleanwithme #fridayclean #friday #fridaymotivation #fridayroutine
This tile project completes the fireplace renovati This tile project completes the fireplace renovation🖤🤍 Be sure to go back and watch parts one and two to see the complete transformation! Comment FIREPLACE and I’ll send you the links to the tiles and supplies I used. 

@loweshomeimprovement #fireplacerenovation #tile #organicmodern #marblelook
My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and A My fall mantel decor! Everything from Target and Amazon🍂🤎 comment FALL and I’ll send ya the 🔗 

fall candles | fall foliage | fall decor | home decor | mantel styling 

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/5mFxB #ltkhome #ltkseasonal #ltkfindsunder50
Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for t Fireplace Makeover Part 2! Comment FIREPLACE for the supplies we used!🔥

When I say this design came to me in a dream I quite literally mean it haha it really came to me in my sleep. I had been thinking about how to make the overmantel work since the stone structure placement kind of made it more difficult.

Putting 2x4s up the wall allowed us to place the shiplap over the top part of the stone and took it out from the wall a little bit. Then Craig built the mantel over the existing stone one - which by the way was the worst mantel that ever existed. It was only about 3 inches deep, it was completely uneven, and it was tilted forward. So basically it was impossible to get anything to really stay on the mantel. Useless lol. Now I have a nice big mantel I can style and put up Christmas decorations and it just looks amazing. 

Overmantel paint color: @sherwinwilliams Worldly Gray
Mantel stain: Minwax Special Walnut

#homediy #lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplacerenovation #homerenovation @loweshomeimprovement
Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 This is sort o Fireplace Makeover Part One! 🏠 

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
Fireplace Makeover Part One!

This is sort of a “it’s gotta get a little worse before it gets better” situation but I HAVE A VISION PPL trust me😅 Hit follow and stick around for part 2!

Products I used from @loweshomeimprovement ⬇️

•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick Flat Avorio
White Lime Interior/Exterior Limewash
•ROMABIO Masonry Stucco Brick 6-in Reusable
Assorted Flat Wall brush

#lowesfinds #lowescreator #fireplace #fireplacemakeover #diyhome
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