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-Sword Ferns
-Vinca (2 in each)

Then I took out my impatiens (replanted them in the yard for the time being, they are annuals but I couldn’t get rid of them just yet) and added in fall color:

-Miz America mustard in the center in front of the fern
-heuchera aka Coral Bells on either side (1 Southern Comfort and 1 Berry Smoothie variety in each pot) in front of each vinca
-3 silverdust aka Dusty Miller in the middle

All of these plants will last through the fall & winter here (zone 7) I am told! 

I’m no pro gardener but I am loving turning into a full-on plant lady🙂 & learning a lot as I go! Follow along because I’ll continue to share my planter arrangements!

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Fitness, Lifestyle · August 9, 2018

Prioritizing Your Health Amongst the Busyness

“I’m too busy to workout.”

“I’m too busy to make a healthy dinner or meal prep ahead of time.”

“I’m too busy to (insert thing you should be doing for your health but you’re not).”

Do any of these things sound like you?  Whatever your thing is that you tell yourself, don’t feel bad…you’re certainly not alone.  I’ve been guilty of it!  But I’m going to give you some tough love today and cut through the BS to help you prioritize your health amongst the busyness.

Bottom line: You’ve got to quit with the excuses.

Everyone is busy.  The thing is, if something is important to you, you make the time for it. If it’s not, then you won’t.  We can all find reasons why we can’t take 30 minutes to workout, but the thing is, 99% of the time, we are lying to ourselves.  Sure there are days when that might legitimately be true and there’s no time, but that can’t be every day.  In order to reach your health & fitness goals you have to prioritize yourself.  I know so many of us have jobs, we are wives, mothers, caretakers of some other kind, students, etc., it’s hard.  I get it.  But if you want change, you have to make changes.  You might have to wake up earlier.  You might have eat at your desk and skip taking a lunch so you can workout then.  You might have to record your favorite show and watch it later.  You might have to skip the post-work drinks with coworkers.  At some point, you’ll have to get really REAL with yourself about what you WANT and what you’re willing to do to GET IT.

Remember this: Nothing changes if nothing changes.

As much as I wish it were true, simply wanting something to happen does not make it happen.  Stop being scared of change, stop holding yourself back, stop making excuses. YOU deserve it!!

As a personal trainer, women’s fitness & nutrition coach, and accountability coach, I can work with you to help you get what you want, I can give you all the tools and motivation and knowledge, but when it comes down to it, YOU have to do those things.

If you want some extra guidance through training or coaching, email me!  I’ll help keep you accountable and push past those excuses.  Let’s do this!!

xo!

Bess

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  1. Danielle says

    August 9, 2018 at 9:34 am

    OMG! thank you Bess!! I feel like I have been preaching this to others recently as well. You really have to want it to make a change. But you’re so right, nothing changes if nothing changes. You first have to want it, but then you have to actually go after it!

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    • Bess says

      August 9, 2018 at 10:30 am

      for sure girl!! glad you agree 🙂

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✨ Exciting News! ✨ I’m thrilled to share the ✨ Exciting News! ✨ I’m thrilled to share the launch of my new virtual interior design services! Whether you’re looking to refresh a room or transform your entire home, I’m here to help you bring your vision to life. 🏡💫 Let’s collaborate from the comfort of your own space with tailored design plans, mood boards, and personalized selections. Ready to create a space you’ll love? Drop a comment or DM me to get started! 💖 #InteriorDesign #VirtualDesign #HomeDecor #TransformYourSpace
Happy 8th, @cartercr1 🤍 from getting married in Happy 8th, @cartercr1 🤍 from getting married in the middle of Hurricane Matthew to still getting through the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, I love you more and more. Grateful to be celebrating another year married to you🥂
These flameless candles are such a good find!! Pac These flameless candles are such a good find!! Pack of 3 for under $8🔥🫶🏼

Comment LINK below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/4SbU5 

#ltkhome #ltkxprimeday #homedecor #candles #ambiance #homefind
These ghosties & pumpkins 🎃👻 Comment LINK These ghosties & pumpkins 🎃👻 

Comment LINK & I’ll send you the links to your DMs! I may add a few more Halloween touches in October (plus some real pumpkins) but I love these too!

https://liketk.it/4RJCV #ltkhome #ltkseasonal
#halloweendecor #falldecor #halloweendecorideas #ghostdecor #jackolantern
These come in a set of 4 with printed labels for u These come in a set of 4 with printed labels for under $8! They are plastic which is perfect since I’m using these to organize the girls’ bathroom 💕 comment SHOP & I’ll send you the link! 👉🏼 https://liketk.it/4Rz2l

You can also find these & more on my Amazon storefront: Amazon.com/shop/besshcarter 

#bathroomorganization #bathroomorganizer #organization #homeorganization #homedecor
Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link ⬇ https://liketk.it/4RnaU 👉🏼 If you don’t already have one of these ring cleaner pens, you need one! I’ve been cleaning my ring with the these for years. Under $10 and it makes it sparkle ✨ like new 💍 They also make great little gifts for brides. 

#amazonfind #engagementring #ringcleaning
I’ll be honest… the oven causes me a lot of mo I’ll be honest… the oven causes me a lot of mom anxiety especially bc Tegan likes to get into everything. This lock comes in a pack of 2 for $5 and gives me peace of mind knowing she can’t open it🩶

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Swapping summer blooms for autumn hues 🍁🌾 Lo Swapping summer blooms for autumn hues 🍁🌾 Loving the fall vibes these planters bring to my front porch. 

Already in the planters are:
-Sword Ferns
-Vinca (2 in each)

Then I took out my impatiens (replanted them in the yard for the time being, they are annuals but I couldn’t get rid of them just yet) and added in fall color:

-Miz America mustard in the center in front of the fern
-heuchera aka Coral Bells on either side (1 Southern Comfort and 1 Berry Smoothie variety in each pot) in front of each vinca
-3 silverdust aka Dusty Miller in the middle

All of these plants will last through the fall & winter here (zone 7) I am told! 

I’m no pro gardener but I am loving turning into a full-on plant lady🙂 & learning a lot as I go! Follow along because I’ll continue to share my planter arrangements!

#FallDecor #PorchMakeover #AutumnVibes #frontporch #frontporchplanters #homeandgarden
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